Wow, another month gone, another glorious year is setting in gradually. Aren’t we grateful we still can breathe? Once in a while, I take time out to be silent, to think and listen out to the spirit within. Whilst in one of those moments thinking about life, love and the in-betweens, a few stuff dropped in my spirit and I feel the urge to share the wisdom:
‘They say a problem shared is one half solved. But, often times, it’s best to keep lips SEALED. Silence where necessary will PROTECT your HEART and FUTURE. It’ll SAVE you from becoming VULNERABLE and a VICTIM of your own TONGUE. Not everything is worth having a man’s hear. When in our Spirit we are moved to keep quiet about certain things, it may be that the timing of or for the revelation may not be appropriate. We do not always need to reveal everything we feel, hear or know in the interest of the hearer as well as you, the speaker. In His own timing, God vindicates and not the things we say.
If you really FEEL the URGE to share PAIN, then you are best POURING your heart out to GOD. Though we cannot SEE Him, He’s the BEST COUNSELLOR there can ever be. He NEVER TRAMPLES upon the trust we have in Him. He FEELS us and He has GOT OUR BACK, ALWAYS!’
‘God is enough to handle what we think He cannot. He’s able to do exceedingly, abundantly more than what you and I can fathom. You can never have too much of Him because He is more than enough!!!In the midst of what we think and believe we need in our lives and are struggling so hard to hold unto; in the midst of our fleshly desires and our seeming ‘void’, God is still more than enough. Try Him and He will help sort it all out for you…’
‘There is no point being with a man or woman out of convenience; it’s a recipe for misery. It takes two whole, mutual and not two half individuals to make a successful relationship. Wait for the one that respects you as woman regardless of the ‘biological tick tock’.A thousand year and a day is nothing different to God. Be patient for the one who submits to you as a man. There’s nothing greater than a woman who submits to her man; she will have the WHOLE of him.’
‘If you are willing to lose it, God is willing to replace it. He says you should cast your cares upon Him and He will take care of them. He feeds the birds of the air, how much more, you, His own replica? There cannot be a replacement unless something is moved out of his comfort and something else is put in its place. It’s either we let go so the new can come or we hold unto and create a lack of space/clutter for the new.’
‘This is for the ladies: The best way to drive a man away from you and into unfaithfulness is through nagging,moaning,complaining,constant dissatisfaction,etc.‘Prov 21:9 NIV-‘Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.’ Prov 25:24 NLT-‘It’s better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife in a lovely home.’Prov 21:19 KJB-[It is] better2dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman-I did not frame it, it’s in Proverbs. A precious Fam of mine would always remind me that ‘You do not fight whom you love. You fight FOR whom you love!’
©Adja A.R Dibassey 2010